Charles Yu 24/4/2018 童年創傷
Being hit as ACE Score due to :
Replace by brother n daughter
1. Psychology : Withdrawal, Shame…
2. Behavior: Gambler, Home bind…
3. Physical health: Allergy, HT, Anxiety…
4. Poor Adaptability.
5. Slow Recovery Ability.
If being restricted, he will give up if he choice.
If he can’t choice, will be extremely change.
Can be trough or very flexible.
Play game is just replacement n get happiness or shelter.
If family hit on his favor (game) , than high chance of give up.
Recall experience by drama therapy.
Reverse position find out value behind n reasons on why patients hit you.
For example: Girl being push out the flat
易地而處思想法:( by questions)
For example :
Answer by client with hints :
Her mother also teach by grandmother.
More safe to protect being hit more.
She didn’t know how to face
The client get experience how to teach in coming future.
Key of Treatment :
Build up positive relation on each time.
Recall how to face same issue next time.
Ask client: what you want at the end.
Target orientation: Always set up Positive Target.
Never let client feel: Not being love.
Keys of Peaceful Mind.
If being hit :
It’s not Real.
He don’t know how to do at that moment.
Jesus: Anger is Temporarily with Love.
Story of Dr. Charles Yu use ruler beat child:
You hit the others, you are being hit first.
Real Heart, Never Real Fire.