Charles Yu 24/4/2018 童年創傷

Charles Yu 24/4/2018 童年創傷

Being hit as ACE Score due to :
Change patients
Relative leave.
Replace by brother n daughter

Consequences change:

1. Psychology : Withdrawal, Shame…
2. Behavior: Gambler, Home bind…
3. Physical health: Allergy, HT, Anxiety…
4. Poor Adaptability.
5. Slow Recovery Ability.

If being restricted, he will give up if he choice.

他們就會選擇放棄圖比例如轉新工打機 填補這被傷害的感覺.

或將這份經歷 重新演繹在他們的下一代.

又或在其他人身上做實驗, 看看這到世界的回應.

If he can’t choice, will be extremely change.

Can be trough or very flexible.

Play game is just replacement n get happiness or shelter.

If family hit on his favor (game) , than high chance of give up.

Treatment :
Recall experience by drama therapy.

Reverse position find out value behind n reasons on why patients hit you.

For example: Girl being push out the flat

易地而處思想法:( by questions)
For example :
你想媽媽當時為什麼會這樣做呢?

Answer by client with hints :
Her mother also teach by grandmother.
More safe to protect being hit more.
She didn’t know how to face
The client get experience how to teach in coming future.

Key of Treatment :
Unconditional Love.
Build up positive relation on each time.
Recall how to face same issue next time.
Ask client: what you want at the end.
Target orientation: Always set up Positive Target.
Never let client feel: Not being love.

Keys of Peaceful Mind.
If being hit :
It’s not Real.
He don’t know how to do at that moment.

Jesus: Anger is Temporarily with Love.

Story of Dr. Charles Yu use ruler beat child:
You hit the others, you are being hit first.

Real Heart, Never Real Fire.

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